Tell her to help me!

Tell her to help me!

[dropcap style=”font-size: 60px; color: #9b9b9b;”] M [/dropcap]artha had something to prove to Jesus – the unfairness of her workload compared to Mary, sitting at the feet of Jesus. But Jesus’ attitude was revealed when he refused to tell Mary to help her complaining sister.  He said, “Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:42)

The injustice is anchored in our perception that we have something to lose, something existential.  We receive this injustice as an personal affront – an indictment.  ”Why me?” we cry out.  ”Why am I afflicted and she is not?”   We will never have peace until we don’t take out injustices personally. Jesus drove this point home in the parable of the vineyard workers (Mt 20). The last one hired was paid the same as the one who worked all day.  Life is not to be compared to those around you, hard as that may be to actually do.

The Jesus Attitude is John Kuypers’ newly updated book from his original seminal work, The Non-Judgmental Christian (2004).  You can learn more at   Stay tuned for the new version coming in early 2014.

When we have nothing to lose, we don’t see life as a comparative competition versus others. It is between God and you. How God treats others is not for us to judge. This results in our having the Jesus Attitude where we freely accept the choices life gives us, even if they are not the choices we wish to have been given.

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Speech on The Sacred Law of Inner Peace

Speech on The Sacred Law of Inner Peace

The Sacred Law of Inner Peace ( ) is Jesus’ upside-down spiritual practice that solves life-sized challenges and helps you make things right. Author and speaker John Kuypers delivers an engaging, inspiring and educational talk to a Christian men’s group.  Based on Matthew 7:5, this spiritual practice transforms lives.  It is the foundation of the, a Christian-based learning and coaching organization for people who want to adopt this spiritual practice into their daily lives.

Please enjoy this 37 minute video.  Note: The book had a slightly different title at the time of this speech, before the book was published.


The Sacred Law of Inner Peace book

SLOIP-md-270 You can rise above any life-sized challenges if you first get neutral.  Read John Kuypers’ concise, highly rated book on Jesus’ upside-down spiritual practice that makes things right – if you seek Peace first, results second.  Click on cover to go to the book webpage.

Hope and faith to solve life-sized challenges

The Jesus Attitude is a safe place to heal.  Here you will find love, support and kindness in whatever form your soul needs soothing.  Learn about the Jesus Attitude by reviewing the posts and information on our site.  Meet founder John Kuypers on video.  Search through the book series, The Jesus Attitude (currently writing-in-progress.)  Listen to audio tracks and podcasts when you become a member of The Jesus Attitude.

We are believers seeking a safe place to explore difficult personal challenges.  Our purpose is to find joy, peace and love from within.

When you put on the Jesus Attitude, you see clear answers to difficult personal challenges, including accepting the way things are.   Jesus reveals His love when we see the world and our difficult situations through His eyes.